Cary is married to Paula (who is absolutely gorgeous). Cary and Paula have two sons and two much loved daughters in law. Drew and Julie live in Ohio where Drew is a police officer and Julie is a high school math teacher. Kyle and Julia live in Indiana where they serve in full-time ministry. Cary and Paula are the proud grandparents of two amazing little boys and the most adorable little girl.
It was Sunday, August 5, 2018. The church service was beginning. The hymn number had been announced and I was standing next to my wife as the congregation began to sing. I could not sing. Not a sound. Not even a whisper. I wept.